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Elsie Romance Guide
My Time at Sandrock

Elsie Romance Guide

Complete Elsie romance guide for my time at sandrock. Learn where to find her, her favorite gifts, and how to propose.

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Complete Elsie romance guide for my time at sandrock. Learn where to find her, her favorite gifts, and how to propose.

Elsie lives on the Yakmel Ranch, near the train station, and occasionally visits the town. You can gain extra Friendship Points with her by increasing your relationship with her parents, Cooper and Mabel, and with Mi-an.

How to Befriend Elsie:

  • Speak with her daily.
  • Give her gifts.
  • Spar with her.
  • Play Critters.
  • Complete commissions she posts to the board, such as the Stone Trough.
  • Once you reach three hearts (400 Friendship Points), you can go on Play Dates with her.
  • Complete quests that involve her and other characters, like Mi-an.

How to Date and Marry Elsie:

Elsie will not date you until you are about 30 to 40 hours into the main story, specifically after the Chasing Elsie mission. During the quest to build the road to Portia, Elsie will run away after an incident involving Daisy the monster and Mabel. You can find Elsie in a cave and complete a quest for her. To help Mabel heal, you must take Oregano to her, but this is only possible if you have reached the Buddy friendship level with Cooper, as Mabel is resting in his room.

After a few days, Elsie will return to town with Daisy. At this point, you can give her a Heart Knot (120 Gols from the General Store) to ask her to date you.

To propose to Elsie, you need to reach three hearts and 900 Friendship Points. You can then propose using the Engagement Ring, which costs 2,000 Gols and can be purchased from the Mysterious Man on the 20th and 21st of each month.

Best Gifts to Give Elsie:

  • Loved Gifts: Bullhead King, Animal House, Camping Den, Crucian Carp King, Golden Bull Head, Jeweled Egg, Lungfish King, Meowses II Statue, Pet Sofa, Professional Sandfish Trap, Rescue Team Boots, Sand Eagle Statue, Shiny Scorpion.
  • Liked Gifts: Advanced Sandfish Trap, Around the World in However Many Days, Artwork: Windmill, Chopped Pepper Fish Head, Desert Defender Boots, Desert Defender Pants, Desert Defender Shirt, Desert Defender Waist Bag, Desert Mudfish King, Diamond, Fluorite, Gold, Horned Adder King, Intoxicating Dream, Journey to the East, Opal, Perfect Builder, Perfume Apple, Pet Castle, Pet Tunnel, Pioneer, Retro Fan, Roast Rutabaga, Rope Knot Toy, Rosestone, Royal Jelly, Rutabaga, Saddle, Sand Snake King, Sandacuda King, Sandfish King, Sandrock Beauty, Scratching Post, Shadowy Figure, Spicy Fish Soup, Spinel, Sunstone, Waist Bag, Water, Wind Chimes.

Early in the game, giving Elsie Water (6 points) or a Shiny Scorpion (17 points, found in the scrapyard) are good options. As you progress, focus on fishing for her most loved gifts: Bullhead King, Crucian Carp King, and Lungfish King (20 points each).

Elsie Player Gifts:

  • Buddy: x2 Sandacuda, x2 Steel Bar
  • BFF: x1 Pet Brand, x1 Saddle
  • Girlfriend: x1 Gemstone Dagger, x1 Sandfish King
  • Fiance: x1 Pet Castle, x1 Rustic Storage Cabinet

These gifts can be gifted back to Elsie or sold for Gols. Elsie will also send you a present on your birthday if you are friends.

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